Ryu Seong-ryong's Parenting Method

Prime Minister Ryu Seong-ryong, Who Helped Restore Order After the Imjin War

Seo-ae Ryu Seong-ryong (1542–1607) played a crucial role in restoring order in the Joseon court during the chaos of the Imjin War. He recommended Yi Sun-sin for a key role, which greatly contributed to defeating the Japanese forces. As a student of the renowned scholar Toegye Yi Hwang, Ryu Seong-ryong was recognized for his outstanding intellect. He valued pragmatism and, after retiring from politics, devoted himself to educating his children and disciples. Later regarded as a pioneer of Silhak (practical learning), Ryu’s wisdom helped save the nation. Let’s explore his unique approach to educating his children.

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Learning Self-Control and Consideration from His Grandfather

For over 400 years, Ryu Seong-ryong’s family established a tradition where grandfathers and grandsons slept and ate together in the Sarangbang. This practice naturally taught children respect and consideration, such as offering food to elders first. It also instilled self-restraint and humility. Developing self-control from an early age improves delayed gratification, a key factor in achieving success, as demonstrated in the well-known “marshmallow experiment.” Understanding this, Ryu Seong-ryong spent time with his grandchildren and naturally taught them the value of self-discipline.

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The Power of Repeatedly Reading Classics

Ryu Seong-ryong advised his children not to focus only on exams but to read great texts multiple times. In his youth, he was not always diligent in his studies. However, when he decided to pursue learning seriously, he secluded himself in the mountains and read Mencius (one of the Four Books of Confucianism) dozens of times until he had memorized it. He also continuously read and copied Mencius and Spring and Autumn Annals, which naturally improved his writing skills and comprehension.

As a result, he passed the state examination without relying on summarized study guides.

Today, many students prepare for exams by only reviewing key test areas. However, those aiming for university admission should develop a strong foundation by fully understanding their textbooks. Ryu Seong-ryong’s approach reminds us that true learning comes from deep engagement with the material rather than surface-level memorization.

 

Raised under his grandfather’s guidance, Ryu Seong-ryong learned manners, consideration, and self-discipline. By repeatedly reading and memorizing classics like Mencius and Spring and Autumn Annals, he reached a deep level of understanding without separate exam preparation. During the Imjin War, his wisdom played a critical role in recommending Yi Sun-sin and overcoming the national crisis. Ryu’s study methods emphasize the importance of a strong foundation. For modern students, focusing on fundamental knowledge will ultimately open the doors to their desired universities.

 

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